American Soldier says,

We all experience moments in our lives that bring us great happiness or absolute misery. It’s what makes us who we are. Each experience making its groove in a person. We often strive to better ourselves, to fix what might be broken or to just carry on with a new experience. Life throws many curves and sometimes you don’t even see it coming.
The days can fly by for some or linger like sludge for others. We all race or sit at the same pace as everyone else. The great mystery is solved when people realize that there really is only twenty-four hours in a day. So why the feeling of life passing you by or going too slow.
I think people get to consumed with the big things and overlook the small stuff gradually. Then before they know it, the things that were small may seem like the most important thing to of lost. What is important to you? I know what is important for me no matter how mundane or lavish. However, this is a mindset not a message or thought.
So the spoils of life are not the great job, the fancy house, etc. It’s the sort of thing that allows you to smile when the big things are so far removed from the forefront of your mind. Take for example a person stuck in the middle of a war zone. He isn’t at his nice house, his great paying job. He is in the middle of hell. It’s the small things at home that make that person get past the hellish days. That’s the crux of life in my opinion. Find your happiness and everything else will fall into place. Get caught up in things that drive you crazy and you will certainly become crazy.